A woman who knows how to feel passion does not need cosmetics (Yves Saint Laurent)
The qualities men value in women often have nothing to do with appearance, bust size, or any other stereotype. There are many parameters that are more important for men than Hollywood looks.
Confidence
Men love confident people. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman who is comfortable and knows what and how she wants to achieve in life.
Willingness to take the first step
Even the most courageous man does not like rejection and does not want his feelings to be hurt. A woman can show that she is ready for communication in many ways - by touch, by a smile. Men really appreciate such signs and respond to them with gratitude.
Sense of humor
Guys like girls who laugh at their jokes and can joke back. Sincere female laughter can melt even the hardest and most courageous heart. That is why even not the most attractive in appearance, but positive and cheerful girls always have many fans, unlike strict beauties.
Ability to listen and understand
Men also love to talk. Most men appreciate girls who are able to just listen to them and understand. Yes, it requires some patience, but the result is worth it. The ability to really hear what the interlocutor says is a demonstration of support, care and interest.
The ability to not be shy to ask for help
Men are very fond of women who ask for help. It makes them feel more masculine, gives them something to talk about, and awakens their innate protective instinct.
Honesty
If a man does not particularly trust a girl, then all the more he does not see her as his girlfriend ... and, ultimately, his wife? Even small lies can get out of control very quickly and become a problem.
Ability to support in difficult times
Even the strongest men sometimes want to be praised, approved, or consoled. They want to know that the girl who will be there to approve of him is not the most obvious choice in life, whether it's a job change or a move to a new city. Care, moral support, understanding and kindness can win all men in the world.
Emotional stability
What kind of women do men like more: calm or unbalanced? Probably, most people will choose the first option and will not be mistaken. Men want a woman who understands her emotions. This does not mean that you should not show emotions at all, it means the ability to control them and calculate the "response" of the partner to them.
Rejoices in gifts, but does not require them.
The best girl is the one who allows her beloved to arrange romantic dinners and surprise with trinkets, but does not turn it into his duty.
Does not manipulate relationships.
Men do not want to be manipulated in any way. Tears, refusal of sex, hysteria, demand love - prove it! - these are the most common types of female manipulation. However, before resorting to any of these “fail-safe” remedies, you should sit down and think: what if the result is completely opposite? If the partner does not guess about the reasons for the offense, and tired of all this, he will treat you worse, or will he just leave?
Does not abuse make-up.
A woman wearing natural makeup looks sexier than a lady wearing "war paint" on her face. The fact is that the absence (or minimal amount) of cosmetics shows that a woman is not ashamed to appear as she is. This is a kind of sign of trust in yourself and the world.
Loves and wants sex. Yes it's true! Men are pleased if a lady responds positively to the manifestation of desire, and does not reject it. This is especially true when a man is looking for a woman to start a family, because there is nothing worse than being associated for many years with a cold, impassive woman whose sexual temperament is completely at odds with that of her husband.
Although men and women are completely different, there is one thing that is true for everyone. Every person wants to love and be loved, and basically people are looking for someone who will provide support in difficult times, be a friend and lover in one person, will be ready to go through all difficulties, if necessary, and will firmly and clearly express your thoughts and desires .
Antonina Lebedeva, psychologist, psychotherapist.
How to compliment a guy? The 100 Best Compliments Every Man Wants To Hear Every Day!
First of all, it should be noted that compliments are made not only to girls and beautiful words are spoken not only to beloved women - they can also and even need to be done by men.
In fact, guys love compliments as much as girls, but gentlemen receive them much less often, at least girls give compliments to their favorite guys many times less often than vice versa.
A good, beautiful compliment significantly raises male self-esteem and strengthens self-confidence, so such a psychological “vitamin” is a necessary condition for a good relationship with a loved one.
Unfortunately, wives (civilian and official), as well as seemingly loving and caring, seemingly affectionate and gentle girls, say kind and beautiful, necessary and important words to their dear life partners extremely rarely and not always accurately.
But to criticize our partners, we, women, are always ready and do it often, a lot, with taste and without reminders. And then the abandoned wives wonder why their husbands left them and left the family for other girls - more joyful, cheerful and positive, who not only know how, but also know how, and really compliment the guys from the bottom of their hearts and souls.
If your beloved young man is still with you, but love and family relationships already leave much to be desired, it's time to resort to the art of complimenting beautifully.
After all, this is not just your boyfriend - this is a brave and brave hero, a caring gentleman, a generous knight or a gallant gentleman who can make you feel like a princess - and all thanks to a skillfully made compliment, a couple of well-timed and beautifully spoken words to your beloved.
In order to cheer up a person with the best compliments in the world, it is necessary to understand that men and women love different types of “praise”.
For example, a compliment that is guaranteed to please a girl is almost guaranteed to offend or embarrass a guy. Now I will dwell on this in more detail.
The male rule of a great compliment is that if you want to compliment a man, you must emphasize and accentuate his “masculinity” in every possible way.
Men are very sensitive to criticism and very quickly recognize insincerity, flattery and lies, so try to avoid watering your beloved guy with "empty admiration" that is not supported by anything.
That's why only say what you really think, - do not overload your beloved with untruthful words that lead away from a sweet and sweet conversation to dishonest praise, because he will definitely feel it ... And maybe he will take revenge on you, or, even worse, stop trusting you.
How do men react to compliments?
Imagine that you called your loved one a “real gentleman” - and he will begin to open all the doors in front of you and will try to justify such a high trust, will try his best to behave like a really well-mannered and polite young man. Encouraged, by the way, by your beautiful words and your faith in that, he really is such a beautiful knight!
Aphorism about COMPLIMENTS
Compliments to a girl: The ability to accept beautiful compliments from men
If you thank your boyfriend or husband for his kindness and generosity, care and affection, love and good attitude, he will always want to give you more and more in order to be worthy of your kind and gentle words, thanks and high marks.
If you, as a loving woman or dear wife, call your beloved man “talented” and “skillful”, he will want to move mountains and drain the oceans for you, he will try to do everything for you as much as possible and as best as possible.
Therefore, instead of criticizing your loved one, give him a sincere appreciation and say a good, kind compliment from the heart.
And the most important rule of how to give a compliment to a man so that he will remember it for the rest of his life: your words must be sincere and you need to praise for a specific thing - say who the author of the compliment is (you or someone else), for what exactly you are praising, why, note how exactly he did something cool.
Make a compliment from the heart so that your laudatory phrase is heartfelt, sincere, honest and well-deserved.
Speak words affectionately and gently, in a pleasant sweet voice, talk about your love and how you appreciate your beloved man as often as possible.
And if you still have to express your dissatisfaction with your husband or boyfriend, then instead of criticizing and swearing, it’s better to first tell him what is already good (give psychological candy), then just say what could be improved (offer changes in his behavior for the better ), and then say again that it’s already good (give me candy again).
And now, let's get acquainted with the list of 100 compliments for a man.
100 best and most beautiful words to the guy you love and with which you can decorate his life, making it more pleasant, easy and inspirational:
You're so clever!
You have such big muscles - just iron cans!
You are a very kind person.
No one has ever understood me and does not understand me like you.
Yes, dear. Of course, beloved.
My dear, I'm sure you can handle it!
I am sure you will find the best solution.
Only you understand me!
You will succeed - I believe in it, I just know it.
You are so handsome!
Wow! What a bicep!
You are a very powerful person.
My favorite !
You are the strongest.
Thank you for your kindness, tenderness and care, my dear.
Gentle lion.
Caring.
Passionate tiger!
Smart, kind, strong - you are the perfect man.
I love you.
You are my hero!
Medieval knights rest next to you 🙂
There is no beast stronger than the husband!
You are the best lover in the world! I have never been so good with any man.
I adore you.
What beautiful eyes you have.
A real man!
You are so kind, gentle, affectionate - I just melt in your arms, become sticky and wet, like chocolate ice cream ...
You are the best of the best !
Just my ideal!
I don’t know if there are guys cooler than you, but if they exist, then there is definitely no cooler and cooler than you!
Thank you for being able to rely on you.
Next to you, I can relax and feel like a weak woman.
You are very reliable - I feel good with you.
A reliable strong male shoulder is yours.
You are my wall, fortress and stronghold! I'm behind you - like behind a stone wall.
Just my fearless hero!
Well, you are brave!
Incomparable!
You are so charming.
Your charm is irresistible.
The embodiment of all my ideals.
Man-Perfection!
You have a very endearing smile.
Thoroughbred appearance, very aristocratic. Did you have any of your ancestors a nobleman?
Who can match your sense of humor?
Mine and only mine...
You have an amazing sense of humor.
Next to you, I always feel calm and protected.
You are a bright and versatile person.
Next to you, I can be myself, real.
Your charm is impossible to resist.
You are the coolest lover in the world.
Only you can give me such deep pleasure...
You are a very bright and non-trivial person, I always have something to talk about with you, you always touch on such important and necessary, interesting topics.
You are an excellent conversationalist.
Only with you I constantly laugh, you probably know which buttons to press to make me laugh.
Sometimes I feel like you know me better than I know myself.
You dressed so beautifully to seduce me and (again) fall in love with yourself!
With you, my dreams of happy love have come true!
With you, I feel at home everywhere.
Your smile... it's something! Simply charming.
You are so funny!
You look very healthy and courageous.
This suit (t-shirt, shirt) is very to your face.
You are the most attractive man not only on Earth, but in the entire Universe!
I love your eyes, your forehead, ears, nose, lips, cheeks, fingers, hands, feet... I love you all - thank you for choosing me... You made me the happiest woman on earth.
My love! I am a very lucky girl - I am very lucky that it is me next to you.
You are so groovy!
A more energetic and enchanting guy than you still needs to be looked for.
You have a big kind heart.
My amazing.
Brave, courageous, courageous - and at the same time a caring and gallant gentleman.
It's amazing how quickly you got through this!
It's amazing how quickly you reacted to this difficult situation on the road - I would definitely be confused if I were you.
You are the best programmer in the world!
There is no more successful businessman in the world!
The most talented.
Pretty!
How sexy are you!
Hot stallion!
And you are also creative, it turns out!
You look amazing in this suit.
You have a calm, reserved, laconic masculine style.
How romantic are you?
You understand me so!
A real gentleman!
The best dad in the world!
I am sure that my husband is the most wonderful in the world.
I love you so much!
Next to you, I feel like a real Lady or even a Queen.
You cook better than me! Your omelet is the best.
You are a born driver from God.
I'm so proud of you.
You earn my sincere respect!
You amaze me!
You inspire me!
You are my favorite cup of tea that I'm craving to drink!
So, now you know how to compliment your beloved man, and I hope that now you will often practice the art of saying beautiful words, delights, admiration and gratitude.
And a few more tips from a psychologist on how to correctly pour honey into men's ears so that he listens and asks for more sweets.
Both women and men need compliments to feel important and needed, to feel loved and appreciated. Even those people who say they don't care about other people's opinions still shine when they hear that someone praised them for a job well done or recognized them for their accomplishments.
In our modern society, it is generally accepted that women need compliments more than men, that only girls need to give love through affectionate words and beautiful compliments, but this is actually not entirely true. For men, a kind word and thanks that are pleasant to their ears are sometimes no less important than women.
Let's now get acquainted with the basic rules of affectionate and beautiful words to a guy and pleasant, gentle compliments to men. So, for what and how to praise a man.
1. Compliment his sense of humor
Compliments to a man - Beautiful words to a guy
Something as simple as "You're the funniest man I've ever known" can really elevate you in his eyes. Men love to be funny, they love it when their sense of humor is appreciated, and they feel great when a girl laughs at his jokes. If your lover is really good at humor, be sure to note his great sense of humor - leave a positive comment or a witty review on it.
2. Ask your loved one for advice or ask for help
Thus, you will raise his self-esteem - by asking for advice, you admit that he is smart and you need intellectual help from him. And men are really great at making decisions and solving a number of problems. And if the advice or help is really wonderful and effective, thank you!
3. His appearance
Rate his appearance. Praise your loved one, if he really looks cool, make a comment on this topic out loud.
“I love your green eyes” or “I love your strong, powerful legs, you are a great runner” - such simple beautiful words about the appearance of the second half will make him feel like a Winner.
In fact, many outwardly confident business men have major doubts about their attractiveness, physique or behavior. Therefore, well-deserved boasting will certainly increase his self-esteem and elevate him to heaven.
4. Compliment a man for his real achievements.
The secret is that if you share the success of your man, then he wants you to recognize his achievements and appreciate them in verbal and non-verbal forms. Even if your boyfriend is modest and does not seem to like high-flown words and odes addressed to him, he still wants you to notice, appreciate and celebrate his triumph with him.
If your knight got a promotion, won a race, made a million, or even drunk his friends - use this as an occasion for approval, a good word, a compliment.
5. Admire his strength
Yes, it may sound primitive, but guys still like to carry heavy bags instead of their girlfriend and change the wheel of her car. At the same time, young people like it when their power and strength are noticed, their courage and generosity of a real gentleman are noted.
6. Adore his charm, charm
Guys like to hear and know that your family and friends respect, love and appreciate him. If you are a wise wife, a smart girl, then with the help of a compliment to your beloved, you can cheer him up and inspire that he is the very best.
Just a broken phrase:
“You made a huge impression on my parents - just blew them away, in a good way!”
“All my girlfriends are jealous of what a cool guy I have, everyone would like to be in my place”
can turn an ordinary boy into a national superstar.
7. Praise his exploits in bed!
It's no secret that men often identify with their male power. If your knight is beautiful in bed - just tell him about it, because this is the best compliment for a guy. Having done something nice for you once and received great feedback from you on this occasion, he will want to please you again and again ...
8. Praise his intelligence
Compliment his knowledge of politics, economics, business, pay tribute to his professionalism, ask him questions on topics that he is well versed in, let him share what worries him. When your loved one sees your interest in what is interesting to him, it will strengthen your relationship and improve mutual understanding between you.
9. Speak words of admiration for his professionalism
As much as we wives sometimes hate to believe it, many men identify with what they do and how they make a living. Compliment the guy about his work, say that you are amazed at his professionalism, note what a responsible position he has, that he makes a great contribution to an important and necessary business for people.
10. Get a little jealous
If a girl is quite a bit jealous of her life partner, then this increases his self-esteem, shows what a popular and sought-after comrade he is. A little bit of jealousy in the most moderate amounts will make him feel like a consummate man.
11. Want to give a really cool compliment to a man? Praise him in public!
You should not say beautiful words to your loved one only in especially personal moments tete-a-tete - tell all your friends, dad and mom, talk about how good he is for you, list his virtues. This will not only flatter him, but also prove that you really love him.
12. Compliment him with a dance step.
Men are divided into 2 groups - those who dance and those who do not dance. Those who do not dance are courageous boys who do not change for trifles - they dance beautifully with their bodies in bed. And those who dance at a disco in a nightclub should know that they move best of all.
13. Believe in him and his successful future
Guys are big dreamers and love it when their girlfriend believes in him and supports his dreams, believes that he will really achieve everything, that he can achieve even his most daring goals.
Encourage your loved one to dream - listen carefully to him, ask clarifying questions, measure out a couple of compliments about his plans and future projects.
Men love those who believe in them.
14. Notice his gorgeous smile
Of course, he has the most charming and attractive smile in the world. Of course, he has the most open and inviting smile. With him you can giggle, and neigh, and intelligently humor.
15. And the best compliment to a man is never to put up with his absence as it should be.
No need to be imposed and be intrusive, you should not control your lover with authority. But if a loved one is not around, send him love SMS, they say, I miss you, I feel bad without you. Sometimes call, remind about yourself. Ask more often: “How will I be without you?”, “What will I do without you?”, “Thank you for being in my life.”
Every man wants to know that he plays the most important role in the life of his beloved and dearly loving woman.
I hope that now you not only know how to praise a guy with affectionate and gentle, pleasant words, but you will really use them in daily communication.
A compliment is life-giving water for the flower of your relationship: the more you water, the more beautiful the flower of your love!
Molchanova Tatiana
No less, but not all women masterfully master the art of choosing the right words. And if any compliment is suitable for the representatives of the weaker sex, even if it resembles rude flattery (such is the history of exquisite compliments since the time of the Egyptian pharaohs - comparing a woman's eyes with diamonds, talking about her in superlatives), then it is more difficult with men. Here it is important not to violate and not slide into an outright bad manners.
So, let's start with what you should never say to a man. First, pussies, baby bunnies, and “baby” and “bunny” calls should disappear from your vocabulary forever. Secondly, vulgarity and platitudes from the “you are coolly dressed” series. Thirdly, questions that testify to your lack of knowledge of a topic (“Who is Gaddafi?”). Of course, you do not have to know everything, but if the topics of politics and football are not your forte, then it is better to remain silent or get off with general phrases with a smile. For example, joke that you prefer to be an expert in another field.
Passion for astrology and the occult sciences can also greatly harm you - according to statistics, only 7% of men believe in the predictions of astrologers, and they simply consider women who attach importance to this to be narrow-minded.
The list of taboos includes memories of his ex, criticism of his mother, even though she is wrong three times, the regularly repeated question “Do you love me?”, As well as criticism of his gifts. You should never give negative comments to any positive impulse in your address, otherwise, demanding lilies instead of roses, you risk becoming a woman who is never given flowers.
Criticism of a man in the presence of strangers, the desire not to listen to him, but to speak, as well as an attempt to take the role of a leader from the first dates are the most common mistakes that can cross out any passionate motives in a relationship.
The main thing that unites all men, without exception, regardless of status and habits, is confirmation of their own significance. Encourage him, raise self-esteem, support - this is the direct task of every wise woman. At the same time, it is important not to overpraise the man, so as not to provoke megalomania.
So what does a man want to hear? What compliments can make him subconsciously reach out to you and feel comfortable and confident with you?
Firstly, any man, even the most infantile, is always and everywhere looking for confirmation of his strength, an assessment of "tribal" qualities, therefore even the simplest remarks from the series "You are so strong!", after he masterfully opens a lid that does not give in to you or drives in a nail with one blow, they will be very pleasant to him. Even if he does not give a look, know that this is so!
Any assessment of his actions, words, gifts should be accompanied by a sincere smile and the good old "Honey, that was amazing!". If it's about sex, you can too.
Compliments that emphasize sexuality are another favorite male topic. "I've never felt so good" or "It was the best sex of my life" are allowed, especially if this is true and if the situation is conducive to such reverent confessions.
Laugh at his jokes. A sense of humor is the main indicator of the mind, and therefore it is pleasant for any man to seem like a person who can surprise with his wit. “Honey, I laughed to tears! I can't forget what you said...
Use the experience of classics or film masterpieces. One of the best examples of the right compliment was the episode from the movie The Legend of Zorro, where Catherine Zeta-Jones, saving herself, flattered the villain: "When you're so close, I'm out of breath". Any man in such a situation loses his will.
The ability to convince to do something your way in the format of a compliment is aerobatics. Try something like: “I don’t insist, you just do it better than others!”
Of course, there are many opinions about what kind of women men like, and creating a single image of an ideal companion is not easy. But still, in all descriptions there are common points.
To please a man, a woman must be attractive. And this means the ability to attract attention, and not put a ton of different cosmetics on your face.
Men love natural, natural. And not at all a plastered face, silicone lips and too revealing clothes.
Make-up should not be too bright and catchy. Otherwise, a man may initially form an opinion about a girl as not quite decent or as ready and willing to do anything. And then it will not be easy to prove that war paint meant something completely different.
As for the hairstyle, the main thing is that the hair is clean, well-groomed and without a huge amount of bonding varnish. They should cause a desire to touch, and not disgust and rejection.
Long nails extended on the hands are also unlikely to cause delight among the male part of the population. Yes, it is aesthetically pleasing and beautiful, but excessive length can scare a partner. After all, such nails are very similar to the claws of a predator, and who knows what big scratches they can leave.
A girl with a beautiful manicure tries to avoid household chores, and therefore creates the impression of herself as a very bad housewife.
Equally important is natural sexuality. Moreover, it manifests itself not in overly open clothes, but in the ability to present oneself, to demonstrate one's exclusivity. And the main element of sexuality is a straight posture. A stooped, insecure woman is unlikely to arouse strong interest from a man. Whereas those who can walk with their heads held high attract a lot of intrigued looks.
It is also important for any girl to be able to be feminine, to recognize and respect her nature.
If a woman is dressed in jeans, sneakers, she has a haircut “like a boy”, a swift jerky gait and masculine habits, then men perceive her as their “on the board”. Such a woman is a friend, but not an object of desire.
But it is femininity that can lure any man. To do this, you need a little: just show yourself weak, give a man the opportunity to protect and protect.
Next to such a woman, a man fulfills himself, feels himself to be who he is supposed to be by nature - a protector.
It is believed that men are afraid of smart women, like fire. However, being smart does not mean constantly expressing your opinion, striving to stand out, put a man in his place with his advantage in knowledge. These are the ones the male sex is afraid of.
You can’t teach a man to live - moralizing repels and causes irritation and rejection. An association with parents is triggered.
A truly smart woman will never demonstrate her advantage or try to humiliate a man. She is capable of holding intelligent conversations and knows when to remain silent.
It is equally important for a woman to be self-sufficient. This quality makes her independent, which allows a man to stop straining in a relationship. After all, every second person fears that it is not he who is interesting to a woman, but his status or wallet.
Another important point is cheerfulness. A positively minded woman, easily walking through life, attracts men like a magnet. With such a person, it’s cozy next to you, it’s nice, it seems that all problems recede, and tomorrow will bring only good things.
Men really appreciate the opportunity to relax next to a woman, to forget about problems and difficulties for a while.
And one of the most important qualities - a woman must respect a man, his friends and his interests. This quality allows not only to win over a man, but also to keep him for a long time. After all, it is best where they understand.
And men are very fond of kind, caring, gentle women. Those who know how to create home comfort, those who know how to understand, accept and forgive.
If only to add Ivan Ilyich's lips to Ivan Ivanovich's nose, and take some swagger, like Baltazar Baltazarovich's ... "(Agafya Tikhonovna. "Marriage". Gogol).
Almost all men want to please women.
Some do not know how to do it, others are too lazy ...
A few tips for the first category.
Young girls and not only like romantic men.
Despite the fact that emancipation is sweeping the planet, and feminists of all stripes are persuading women to give up their original privileges, most women still want to be beautifully looked after, serenaded, given flowers.
But romance is not only a candlelit dinner, but also a morning call with the words: "Good morning, my love!" Or at least a text message...
Any woman will appreciate if man remembers their personal red dates. For example, the day of the meeting, the day of the first kiss, the day of the declaration of love.
Even the most modest tokens of attention will not let love fall asleep in a woman's heart - one gifted flower, a chocolate bar, theater tickets, in the summer a boat trip, a water tram.
Almost all women love tenderness, caressing glances, light stroking, fingering.
Even if you have already entered the time of intimate relationships, all of the above tenderness will make passion more memorable.
And yet, as scientists have found, women get tired of the monotony in sex much faster than men, and it is desirable that the script of the love game change from time to time. You can use role-playing games, change the bed for a carpet or a bathroom.
And the axiom that women love ears, too, so far no one has canceled.
So in a love relationship with a woman, silence is not gold, but rust that undermines these relationships.
It is not necessary to praise your beloved and sprinkle with colorful epithets, it is clear that there are only a few Cicerons among us. But talking about how you love and want a woman is a must.
And women like caring men with whom it is comfortable and reliable.
Although almost all of us have become independent and even self-sufficient, somewhere in the depths of the subconscious there is a secret desire to be a man like behind a stone wall.
Women- no less possessive than men. They want her loved one to belong to her alone.
Therefore, there are quarrels, the reasons for which men do not see. Well, I looked at someone's beautiful legs, well, I praised my friend's hair. What's criminal here?
Nothing. But many women react painfully.
In order not to lose trust women, do not lie to her for every trifle. Truthfulness, in general, strengthens relationships. Living with a liar is like walking through a minefield...
Women they try to part with the whiner as soon as possible, always complaining about the fate and the people around him.
And, as sociologists and psychologists say, the prestige of the tough macho is rapidly declining.
An increasing number of women prefer men who can not only build a house, but also build a nest in it.
Not only the ability to earn money is valued, but also the ability to care for babies, and in the future to find a common language with grown-up children.
And the most important thing is that a woman who is looking for man first of all, love, not money, will always appreciate sincerity and kindness.
